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		<title>Do As I Say, Not as I&#8217;ve Done: Trying Too Hard Is a Problem</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, many of us hear that &#8220;Do as I say, not as I do&#8221; thing as children, and yes, it&#8217;s annoying. But Ms. Sanity has inadvertantly provided a fabulous example of things not to do, and why people say that &#8220;do as I say&#8230;&#8221; thing. It can be helpful when we learn from the mistakes [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, many of us hear that &#8220;Do as I say, not as I do&#8221; thing as children, and yes, it&#8217;s annoying. But Ms. Sanity has inadvertantly provided a fabulous example of things not to do, and why people say that &#8220;do as I say&#8230;&#8221; thing. It can be helpful when we learn from the mistakes of others, so gather round as I wave my mistake in the air to show you. Here&#8217;s the issue: Frankly, I have been shooting myself in the foot here in Sanityland. When I work on this blog, I want it to be <strong><em>good</em></strong>. Interesting, helpful, different, you know, all of those things. I&#8217;ve been on some level trying too hard, and the upshot has been that I&#8217;ve done nothing. This is not good. Don&#8217;t do that.</p>
<p>Of course, in order to be a good blogger, one has to be consistent, one has to post regularly. Obviously Ms. Sanity has been falling down in that regard. Ms. Sanity&#8217;s Mother has noticed this behavior for many a year now&#8211;she calls it the &#8220;<em>Refusing to write a letter unless all the pencils in the house are sharpened, and you have the most beautiful stationery to use </em>phenomenon,&#8221; when of course, the recipient would just be happy to get a durn letter from Ms. Sanity.</p>
<p>Mum&#8217;s right on the money there. One should just write the letter. And I know for a fact that I am not the only one with this phenomenon.<br />
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<p>I was horrified and pretty annoyed with myself on this Thanksgiving Day when I realized that it has been 29 days since my last post. That&#8217;s simply not acceptable. See, when I make a post, I want it to be thoughtful. Original, well-written, preferably well (or at least marginally well) illustrated.</p>
<p>Here are some of my excuses. See if they mesh with any of YOUR excuses. (My father would say: There are always REASONS, but<strong><em> rarely excuses</em></strong>.)</p>
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<li>I&#8217;ve been busy.<br />
<em>Well, we are ALL busy, in one way or another. If Ms. Sanity wants to be a blogger, she needs to <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">blog</span></strong>, yes?<br />
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<li>I wanted my posts to be good. Exceptional, even.<br />
<em>Well, my readers are looking for helpful, hopefully thought provoking information from me, and perhaps a little entertainment here and there, not proof of my substantial brilliance. (heh</em>)</li>
<li>I wanted to do research and provide LOTS of useful information in my next post.<br />
<em>Well, even one piece or useful information or one link can make a difference to someone&#8217;s life. It doesn&#8217;t have to be fifty links! Helping out even a little is better than my silence, yes?</em></li>
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<p>So, now: the flip side is this. I will do my best stop the habit of trying too hard, and perhaps you need to do the same. (Some of us, perhaps including yours truly, may need to watch out for &#8220;trying too hard not to try too hard,&#8221; but that&#8217;s a whole other post&#8230;.)</p>
<p>Nike&#8217;s relatively inspired slogan &#8220;Just Do It,&#8221; is actually more than a good way to sell shoes. It&#8217;s a mantra many of us would do well to hold in mind, and act upon. So here&#8217;s my &#8220;Just did it&#8221; post&#8230; and I wish everyone, everywhere, a day or at least a moment of thanksgiving, as we celebrate here in the USA. Have a lovely day.. and don&#8217;t try too hard. Good enough is really, good enough, and something is almost always better than nothing&#8230;Nobody is perfect, anyway, no matter how hard one tries.</p>
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